Not sure if you have all the motor parts already, but I would recommend going the stroker route! Heck, all other things considered you are gaining an easy 40-50 cubes, and at that power level that's easy 50hp extra, and more likely 75 actually. The biggest expense here is the stroker crank...otherwise the pistons you would be getting (presumably) new for either build anyways.
Front suspension wise you could go to the thicker 11/16" tie-rod setup. Factory is 9/16", while the fleet/HD stuff was 11/16". Aftermarket now has some pretty sexy looking parts out there and I'm guessing since these things aren't exactly flying off the shelves you may have an easier time finding these.
I would certainly re-do all the soft parts, so bushings, etc. Move up to poly if need be.
Can't say much about the 8-3/4" and sway bar unless you're retaining the ISO setup, which vast majority of folks are dead set against. I did keep it, moved to POLY ISO replacements, back end is pretty stiff making for great road manners, but due to the overall street config my 1/4 mile 60' times are horrific as I have no real body weight transfer. So you need to pick your goal and do everything possible to RULE that domain!! lol